During my recent three-day stay in Las Vegas, I had the opportunity to sit in the B Bar at the Wynn. I don’t gamble, but I do drink and in my life quest to find the world’s best gin-and-tonic, I paused at this watering hole located next to the Baccarat room and ordered my Sapphire-and-tonic.
The bartender was engaging and despite being busy, he had time to discuss the virtues of the twist v the lime. I’m strictly a lime guy, and I’m certain that anyone who orders their gin-and-tonic with a twist, is, as W. Somerset Maugham once said, “The type of man who would wear a brown suit in London.”
I was seated at the bar next to a 30-ish man who immediately introduced himself and the fellow next to him. He said, “He’s a South African by way of Chicago and I’m a Marine by way of Houston. We don’t know each other, but hell, this is Vegas!”
The South African nodded and we all shook hands. This is what I like about Las Vegas, there’s a sense of shared adventure that binds casino-goers. The South African knew the bartender by name, so I assumed that he was a regular. Well-dressed and impeccably groomed, he seemed very much at home in the B Bar. He departed quickly, after excusing himself and instructing the bartender to put our drinks on his tab. The Marine and I shook his hand, thanked him and wished him well.
The Marine turned on his chair and faced me to ask me where I was from. As he did, I noticed that his left eye was missing. I’d also noticed, when shaking his hand, that his grip was weaker than one would expect from a robust warrior in his early 30s. He pointed to the socket that once held his eye and said, “Does this damn thing bother you? Some people really freak out.” I told him, “I’m a journalist and I’ve seen plenty of things uglier than you.” I made sure I was smiling when I said that. I didn’t want to end up face down on the barroom floor with his K-bar at my throat.
He looked at me through his good eye for few seconds, threw his head back and laughed uproariously. I exhaled.
“Where you from?” he asked. “Fort Worth, it’s west of a place called Dallas,” I said. He said, “I know where it is, I’m from Houston.”
As all itinerant Texans are wont to do, we immediately launched into a discussion about the virtues of our home state. He told me that he was in Vegas waiting to be fitted for a prosthetic eye. I asked him where he’d done his tour and he said, “Fuckin’ Fallujah, that’s where I got this,” pointing to his eye socket.
I shook his hand again and said, “Thank you and welcome home.” I grew up during the Vietnam era when returning soldiers were cursed and spat on upon returning home. I’d also spent a year managing coverage of the war on a Web site called “Dispatches,” for Belo Corp. David Leeson, my Dallas Morning News photographer colleague, won a Pulitzer Prize for his photographs of the early days of the war. In addition to covering the war, our team maintained a database of all military casualties. Spend a few months writing daily postings describing the deaths of 18-, 19- and 40-year-olds and it takes a toll. The terms “IED” and “Humvee” came up a lot.
“Was that an IED?” I asked, pointing to his eye? “Yup, and I got a belly full of shrapnel and a right hand that doesn’t work anymore too. But I’m one of the lucky ones, I’m here in Las Vegas having a drink with another Texan. A bunch of my buddies didn’t come home.”
He talked about his buddies, mostly. I told him how we’d covered the war and how for the first time, through the use of satellite phones and imbedding, we were able to post combat photos to the Web within moments of a firefight.
I wouldn’t call him bitter, but he’d definitely seen all of the military and war he wanted. His goal was to get his eye fixed and to get a job and put the war behind him. “The war cost me an eye, the use of an arm, and a good woman,” he said.
I had a dinner appointment to make, so I palmed a $100 note and shook his hand and thanked him again. He felt the bill when we shook hands, but didn’t look at it, and said, “Man, that’s not necessary. You need to use that to gamble.”
I thanked him one more time for what he’d done for me and as we parted I said, “I never gamble, I invest.”